How Can I Get My Girlfriend's Ring Size?

How to Estimate Ring Size

Proposals. Promises. Presents. Whatever the occasion, a ring is a meaningful gift. There is only one problem: sizing. There are a wide range of ring sizes available. How can you be sure to buy a ring that fits?

Go With the Average Ring Size

The easiest solution is to simply buy the average ring size. This has the benefit of being the most common size, increasing the chances that it will fit. Unfortunately, there is no guarantee that it will fit perfectly. If the ring is too small, it can be difficult (although not impossible) to resize it.

Go Big, Resize Later

Resizing rings is tricky, but it can be done. It is much easier to decrease the size than increase it. That means it’s usually better to buy a ring that is too large than to risk the ring being too small. With this method, you will almost certainly have to resize it.

However, this is less risky than buying the average, since you know the ring won’t be too small. It won’t be perfect at first, but it is easily correctable, so buying a larger ring is usually a good investment.

Use Other Jewelry as a Baseline

If you don’t want to guess her ring size, there are ways to figure it out. One simple solution is to use other jewelry as a baseline. Does she already have rings in her jewelry box?

Try tracing one onto a sheet of paper and measuring it. This is a simple way to accurately estimate ring size. Do this while she is sleeping or out of the house and it will be easy to keep things a secret.

Ask for Help

Maybe she doesn’t own rings, or you aren’t able to access them without tipping her off. Try asking for help. Her friends or family members might have an idea of her ring size.

It won’t be as exact, but it will still help. As a bonus, you might get some advice on the design of the ring as well.

Talk to Her

If all else fails, just talk to her about it. This can be framed as a joke or lighthearted teasing, thus keeping some element of surprise, or it can be a serious conversation. Giving her a ring is meaningful, even if she suspects it’s coming. If finding an accurate ring size is more important to you than keeping things quiet, there is nothing wrong with asking her for her ring size directly.

Talk to the Experts at Sethi’s Fine Jewelry

Regardless of what you choose to do, you should always consult the experts. The Houston jewelers at Sethi’s will be more than happy to talk with you.

Get expert advice on all aspects of your ring, from finding the right size to choosing a design, online or in person at Sethi’s.